白いドレス (The White Dress)

   As a man, I feel it is important for me to carry on my generation. I can see how I would want to be married. In Japan, during the spring, watching the pink cherry blossoms fall from the blowing wind. And watch my bride come towards me, as the warm sun, outside shines brightly on her face. But how old am I? and how old is she? This question has always boggled my mind, because I've always heard both of these statements. "Get Married young!" and, "Get married when your older!" Which one do I choose? I believe that there can be problems on both sides. As Mark Regnerus writes about the troubles of marriage, I believe that depending on the person's maturity level, depends on when they should marry. If a loves to act like a kid and be romantic, they should do that. but if it's the serious one who says the job comes first, and his sexy to the eyes of the girl, the he shouldn't be the one to take as husband. Because he'll love that job more then his spouse, and when he want's to let loose, she'll do "it" with him because she want's to "please" him. Even the woman is no excuse ether, sometimes they'll use the man for their pleasure. But don't get me wrong there are plenty of people that love to have a fun, loving, over the top, kind of relationship. Then there's the issue of dating, how long should you date? Depending on your age is how long the dating should be. For example, if your a teenager, then you could keep dating till your 18 to 20. But older then that shouldn't be dating for more then five years. I believe my Aunt said this, "If your dating for more the five years, then your not ready to make a commitment!" Of course this a paraphrase. I would love to hear more, and more people getting into relationships with people they've know for a long time, like in a high school sense. Because if someone married their high school sweet heart, I believe that, that relationship would last forever, till death do them part. So what about me? currently I do not feel ready, not because I'm young, but because there is no one that currently attracts me. But I do believe, in God's time, that I will be married to the right person. Who is a right person? I believe that the special someone is one who can argue with you, throw things at you, cry with you, pray with you, laugh with you, enjoy the time with you, and most of all, Love You.