Upon reading Albert Mohler's article of marriage I can clearly say that I agree with what he says.
In his article called, No man will do: Why secular economists are alarmed at the recent decline in marriages. He explains how he read a article from the Washington post that is most likely called, Woman just aren't that into the 'marriageable male' anymore. Which in it's self, explains that woman feel that marriage is just not worth it anymore.
First of all, both Mohler and I believe that God intended marriage to happen. Sure it could take a while, sure you might not find your soul-mate right away. But within the Washington article, they say that the woman would love to have kids, but never a husband. Now this is Biblically wrong. The multitude of woman who want to have sex and not be married, are violating God's laws. And not be sexist, the men who will say yes to this are just as guilty. No human being should want to have sex because it is so called, "fun" or "a milestone in your life". Sex should be for those who are married, and are truly passionate for one another. Now, this does not mean that those who are married have excuses ether. They should not pursue others who "want to have fun." And there should not be any people who are married and are homosexuals, because that is also a break from God's law.
Now with my rant out of the way, allow me to tell you why it is not economical.
Think back to when you were a kid, remember how you had both parents there to always be there for you. Mommy would have kissed your boo-boos, and Daddy would have told you to man up, or even woman up(I guess). Now imagine this, let's say you have only Mommy. She might have raised you to tell you that Daddy went somewhere elsewhere in the world, or that he left you and Mommy alone. You would then believe that way, and if you ever saw your dad later in life, you would reject him. And you would most likely grow up a snowflake, because Mommy would always tell you that everything will come your way to you. That is exactly what these new young woman most likely will do. These Snowflakes will raise Snowflakes.
Economically, these woman are wanting to make a stupid choice to raise children up so that they can become Mama's boys or girls.
Not only do I disagree with these women's choices, I also understand it. Generally, men can be very mean, rude, and hurtful to a woman. Especially when the majority of woman aren't Christians, and men aren't Christians. Because the government will not look at the good things and go, "Oh we should follow that example, and others need to follow it as well." Instead they look at the bad things. And most non-Christian men tend to be abusive to their woman. So I could also understand, even though these women say, "it's because it's not the tread." They are only kidding themselves and other women around them. And maybe they want just to feel like they own men. And they kind'of do.
With this in mind, let it sink in. Marriage is a brilliance that God created, so that the man and woman could become one flesh. And when they have a son, he shall go off and find a woman to call his own and those two shall become one flesh. Now I am not saying that men should go into the world and find the first woman they meet and sleep with her, he shall have it in his heart that he will find the right one when God tells him so. And not for breeding reasons, but for the purpose of being together with another human being, and not being alone.
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